The original DNG is no the edited version it is the ones upload from my camera. and I do have other catalogs and searched all of them also but nothing.
But that's how Lightroom works. It never changes the image portion of your DNG files. If you look in your operating system, you will find unchanged images ... and as I said, that's how Lightroom works.
The edited version exists only in Lightroom; if you want a copy of the edited version on your hard disk for some non-Lightroom purpose (like e-mail, web or send to commercial printer) then you have to do File->Export ... and export an edited TIF or JPG version of your photo
I have the file on LR for it but it has the ! in the corner and no pic but when I go to search for them it doesn't even take me too the file it thinks it is in i have too search for them and it find the original photo. So I guess I'm kinda out of luck and have too go back thru and edited….
No, you're not out of luck ... you just have to link the photo in Lightroom with the exclamation point icon to your unedited photo on your hard disk (using these instructions: Adobe Lightroom - Find moved or missing files and folders ) and then you should be able to do anything you want with the photo in Lightroom, including export it.
Advice ... you need to change your habits so that all photo management is now done in Lightroom and not in your operating system. That's right, you no longer go into your folders in your operating system and move, delete or rename the photos or folders. You MUST do this in Lightroom from now on, no exceptions! This will make your life so much easier